Friday 20 January 2012

friendship

Assalamualaikum peeps. :)

Another post just after one day? are u kidding me?hihik xD Holiday has just started to sparkle and everyone must be very excited to have a great escape from classes and so on. *yang memang dh cuti tu xpayahla..anda memang bercuti pun kan hehe* That includes me definitely. :D But homework are not meant to be kept because i must submit everything after this holiday.huhu. Well, back to the topic!

This is a general post that I do not intentionally pointing out to anyone in particular. It is only based on my own experience, thoughts, and from my observation. Let's keep the good parts and leave the bad one. I have a very great friendship indeed! And that is why I always tell myself to appreciate them and give my best to keep this friendship until forever. :) But sometimes, not everything will last forever even though it was once a terrific one. Maybe there are reasons behind everything that happens and of course, life must go on as usual. In my opinion, we still have our responsibility even though we had ended the friendship. The responsibility is not only applied to ourselves but also to the friend that once our best friend. What I meant by this is that some of us are using hatred and emotions to get revenge or to satisfy your own feelings.

Are you really satisfed? By doing those sort of things? Is that good enough to clean your 'extreme dislike'? If your answer is YES, let me tell you that you should seek for help. Yup, you have a big emotional problem. You may say that the person that was your friend had done such a terrible thing which you may not forget and forgive. I think if you really appreciate what both of you have had before, you will not use your anger to get back to that particular person. Because at the end, both of you will get hurt. I extremely disagree to some people who tend to use nasty words and humiliate other people for their own satisfaction. At least, please use wise words and try to give it in a form of advice instead of trying to make it sounds so wrong. Because I think you have just humiliated your own self as people can see the other side of you which is full of hatred. Do not be so quick to jump to an assumption without knowing things from every aspects. Akhir kata, muhasabah diri.

Akal diberi untuk berfikir, jadi berfikirlah dengan bijaksana.
Fitnah adalah penyakit yg kronik.

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